Thursday, December 11

100 one liners for parents of kids with autism ADHD based on dr kondekar

1. Sitting improves listening → listening improves speech (no medicine can replace this)

2. Listening vs. medicines for speech

“Sustained sitting in one place is essential for improving listening skills.
Without listening, no amount of speech medicine can give verbal output.”


Here are 100 one-liner texts based on Dr. Kondekar’s protocol, specially crafted for parents working with children who have autism, speech delay, learning issues.


✅ 100 One-Liner Messages (Dr. Kondekar Protocol based)

  1. Sitting in one place builds listening; listening builds speech.

  2. Speech begins with listening, not with talking.

  3. Understanding comes before speaking—always.

  4. Teach the ear first; the mouth follows later.

  5. Listening time is medicine time for speech.

  6. A stable body creates a stable mind.

  7. Movement reduces listening; stillness improves it.

  8. Don’t rush speech—strengthen listening daily.

  9. Eye contact is the first step to language.

  10. Reduce noise; increase understanding.

  11. Run commentary all day—your voice is therapy.

  12. Slow, simple speech helps the child absorb more.

  13. Repetition is powerful—repeat words, not instructions.

  14. Don’t prompt to speak; prompt to listen.

  15. Teach understanding through daily routine words.

  16. Use less screen, more human voice.

  17. Family radio time builds auditory tolerance.

  18. A calm child listens better.

  19. A listening child learns faster.

  20. Do not teach speech—teach comprehension.

  21. Listening improves when the child sits for longer periods.

  22. Before speaking, the child must learn to wait.

  23. Speech medicines work only when listening is strong.

  24. Movement breaks the listening chain.

  25. No sitting → no listening → no speech.

  26. Therapies work best when parents follow routines.

  27. Each word needs exposure 500 times to become meaningful.

  28. Speak less, speak slow, speak meaningful.

  29. Don’t overteach; teach steadily.

  30. Child must enjoy listening before he can start talking.

  31. Listening is the gateway to learning.

  32. Your voice is the most powerful therapy tool.

  33. Behaviour improves when understanding improves.

  34. Hyperactivity reduces when meaningful listening increases.

  35. Reduce commands; increase connection.

  36. First listening, then following, then speaking.

  37. Build foundations—don’t chase milestones.

  38. Speech emerges from calmness, not excitement.

  39. Teach by showing, not by shouting.

  40. Kids learn language by hearing, not by copying.

  41. Slow listening → slow speech; fast listening → improved speech.

  42. Feed the brain with words, not screens.

  43. The child must listen to 10,000 hours before speaking smoothly.

  44. Work on attention before working on speech.

  45. Don’t label behaviour—guide it gently.

  46. Tantrums reduce when comprehension rises.

  47. Use structured routines—children learn faster.

  48. Speak only what the child can understand.

  49. Listening builds memory; memory builds speech.

  50. Teach meaning, not vocabulary lists.

  51. A child who listens better behaves better.

  52. When the child starts understanding, speech will come naturally.

  53. Stop correcting speech; start enriching listening.

  54. Activities should improve attention, not overstimulate.

  55. Parents are the primary therapists.

  56. Children learn language through immersion, not drills.

  57. Listening is a long-term investment.

  58. One calm instruction is better than ten loud ones.

  59. Teach through daily experiences, not special classes.

  60. Don’t chase words—chase connection.

  61. The brain needs repetition, not pressure.

  62. A child who listens well will eventually speak well.

  63. Teach through play, not force.

  64. Reward listening, not speaking.

  65. Speak to the child, not at the child.

  66. Give time for the brain to process words.

  67. Language grows when understanding grows.

  68. Avoid multitasking—focus on one listening activity at a time.

  69. Build silent moments for the child to absorb.

  70. Follow a daily audio routine religiously.

  71. Parents must model calm behaviour for the child to learn.

  72. Teaching happens all day, not only in therapy sessions.

  73. Don’t expect talking without listening.

  74. Foundation first, speech later.

  75. Teach by exposing, not by testing.

  76. Listening skills grow in quiet environments.

  77. Reduce visual distractions to improve listening.

  78. Focus on comprehension, not copying.

  79. Invest time in early listening training.

  80. Talk during routines—bathing, eating, dressing.

  81. Kids learn from consistent voices, not inconsistent instructions.

  82. Don’t push speech; pull understanding.

  83. Speech delay improves when listening delay improves.

  84. Your daily voice input is therapy dose.

  85. Teach actions + words together.

  86. Understanding words reduces frustration.

  87. Don’t force speech output—wait for natural expression.

  88. Listening therapy is invisible but powerful.

  89. Strong listening reduces hyperactivity.

  90. Teach meaning through repetition and context.

  91. Listening growth is slow but steady.

  92. Children understand more than they speak—respect that process.

  93. Make listening fun, not tiring.

  94. Emotional connection improves auditory learning.

  95. Child must feel safe to listen.

  96. Before vocabulary comes attention.

  97. Speech emerges when listening, attention, and calmness meet.

  98. Listening is the mother of all learning.

  99. Don’t chase speech medicines—build listening habits.

  100. Speech is the result; listening is the cause. 

What to look for best autism adhd doctor in mumbai?

Dr Kondekar;s blog on best practices in autism adhd, best sensory and speech therapist and role of medicines. Goal directed cognitive approach focussing om eye contact, sitting tolerance, listening and understanding skills and verbal communication by improving connection with the child. Connection and communication is possible between only 2 living beings. Teaching with non living objects keeps u away from primary need of connection with living beings. In autism sensing the world and words is the primary issue, work on that instead of seeing and doing things. In ADHD steadyness of mind and body is main issue, so work on that instead of giving movements. we need attention of eyes and ears for listening so that quality learning develops by focus. Movement / activity breaks are needed for kids without these issues. As these kids are always on the run, they dont need movement based activities and learning ahead of human to human listening based verbal understanding.

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