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autism reversal principles and some basic advice PARENTS ARE KEY

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if you feel you have learnt all tricks of OT etc , and you can teach OT to any kid with autism or take care of your 

autism kid for years, *you are wrong*; it just means that you dont know the next step. Sometimes it's good to 

accept we are wrong, then only we can *see the ray of hope.*

When we work with medicines and therapy *we develop connections and cross connections to processing 

centers;* which shows extended level of communications in the form of development in various *domains of 

understanding* including knowledge, nonverbal communication, behavior, emotions, socialization, interactive 

games and talking and writing skills apart from physical things.

** *Leaving things half way will develop connections half way and loose connections always die.* ** Often with a 

spark.

*Development is decided by connections, speed is decided by myelination.* 

At least keep a *minimum goal of readiness for primary school* admission over 2 year phase. Then divide them 

into steps. 

*Later the age of intervention or medicines harder will be recovery or development of milestones.*

Work towards reducing severity of level, A child who can take main stream schooling for primary usually is 

*independent* and can be educated and trained to take care of family responsibly , when he or she grows up.

*Remember every one has limits.. even God too does.. we all are attempting to look beyond the perceived limit 

and find a higher achievable limit, in the best interest of the child, when we walk towards horizon attempting to 

touch the limit, the limit too moves ahead.*giving us hopes to improve further every month 

Dr Kondekar #MakingSense

I want all parents to understand when we are looking for improvements, what all changes we may look for. A keen 

parent would like to note down minor details about every change on weekly basis rather than saying sir no 

improvement. 

Other parents may have similar ideas but if u don't note down In details, it's not easy to compare the improvement 

across time line. See the monitoring chart. Given at website neuropediatrician.com for getting a serious idea to see 

objective change.

The improvements can be minor when we expect changes every week , it's always better to note down.

*Try to list changes as per gains since last visit and goals till next visit*

Also you have headings

activities - living, household,, skills and gross /fine motor

Communication

Interaction

Academics

Langauge concepts

Pre match concepts

Story concept

Math concept

Abstract concepts etc

Medicines :

As I told u most of them are raw material used for building block for forming bridges in brain. These combinations 

will reduce or change every month after every weekly titration across whatsapp. After first positive response we 

follow gradual reduction in nutrients...systematically.

Half hearted efforts will give incomplete response, more so in a situation where world say nothing can be done 

except exercises.

Exercises only effect the input but has no major role in processing connections in brain

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key principles in autism reversal:

1.Dont be Special, turn into social

2.To make social, switch from object world based teaching to people and action based teaching

3.To develop communication; switch from screen based learning to body language based learning

4.To develop language, switch from seeing-doing activities to listening talking activities

5.Sitting tolerance increases by sitting activities with sensory breaks as per childs requirement.Making a child 

continuously jump and run will make him expert in jumping and running

6.Constant hugging kissing and carrying skin to skin, make the child get physically pampered and stubborn. keeping 

your child 2 feet away face to face helps develop eye contact and social communication

7. If you dont make rules for child behaviour, child will start ruling you and throw tantrums to change your 

behaviour.

8.Children copy what they see, hear and feel. Dont let them see ,hear and feel what u dont want them to learn, for 

example saying no or physically handling the child or shouting to grab attention.

9.Dont teach letters and alphabets,or what is this type of teaching; they are for picture recognitions. Teach in 

sentences, it means language. Dont ask questions, just go on narrating.

10.Music/rhymes is good only for momentary solo pleasure. Switch to lyrics and language if you wish the time to 

be utilized for learning and communication. 

Dr Kondekars ten commandments on Autism reversal

*Understanding-Goal Directed Approach :*

Dear Parents

Make a list of all things u feel will be impossible in your kid and work towards it.

if you believe nothing is impossible, list things or issues your kid has difficulty in and list what all you did for your 

kid for same issue for last 3 months. list what all you made possible.

if you can list all changes you brought in last 3 months, discuss with expert about next step and how rapidly it can 

be achieved.

if you are stuck at a step for more than 3 months, we are losing time and raise an alarm.

*Accept autism, don't accept disability, work towards enabling same*.

Understand and re understand the issue differently and work towards it.

Its true that you know best for your kid, but *its equally true that u don't know what is best for others kids* 

;Parenting an autism kid since ages, doesn't make you an expert for others kids unless you get through details of 

thousands of cases.

So unless you are expert *don't start teaching other parents,* you may be giving some information halfway which 

is true only for your kid. It's not a routine parenting issue in autism.

*Dont give up your desire to learn and do something new every day.*

its true that home therapy is needed, but *don't make your house a therapy center with various toys and 

activities.*

Home therapy in true sense will mean practicing tricks with home based day to day objects and acts

milestones of speech development in children

Speech often confused as just a verbal expression, actually needs to understand as any mode of communication between two living beings in the form of  listening speech, understanding speech and expressing speech through action or gestures or words.